Here’s a cold, hard truth: Most of the time a woman does not submit to the man who treats her nicely, showers her with gifts, or sacrifices for her. She submits to the man she fears. By “fear,” I’m not talking about physical intimidation or abuse—no real man needs to stoop that low. I’m talking about the respect that stems from knowing you are a man of strength, principle, and authority. Without that dynamic, most women, especially modern ones, will test your limits, disrespect you, and challenge your position at every opportunity.
Take a look at her behavior in the workplace. She’ll walk into an office, and no matter how ill-mannered, demanding, or downright abusive her male boss may be, she’ll nod her head, comply with his orders, and even go the extra mile to stay in his good graces. Why? Because she fears the repercussions of not following his lead. She fears losing her job, her paycheck, or her reputation in the office. This same woman, who submits to a boss paying her a fraction of what you provide, will come home and suddenly transform into a rebellious, argumentative partner who wants to wrestle you for power in your own household.
Why the double standard? It’s because most modern women do not respect or fear the men they are with. They see kindness, sacrifice, and provision as weaknesses to exploit, not strengths to admire. If you are bending over backward for her, putting her happiness above your own, and accommodating her every whim, she will see you as a pushover. The power struggle begins because, in her eyes, you are not strong enough to lead.
This is not an isolated phenomenon. It’s a pattern deeply embedded in the mindset of modern women who have been conditioned to see traditional male leadership as oppressive. They want to control the relationship dynamics but still expect you to handle all the responsibilities of a provider, protector, and problem-solver. It’s a paradox that most men today are blindly walking into, only to find themselves disrespected in their own homes.
Now, let’s flip the script. Imagine you embody authority, decisiveness, and unshakable principles. You set boundaries, enforce them, and refuse to tolerate disrespect. Suddenly, her behavior changes. She knows there are consequences to stepping out of line, and she instinctively falls into her natural role of submission. This doesn’t mean you’re a tyrant; it means you’re a leader. Women crave strong leadership, even if their modern ideologies tell them otherwise.
The truth about love and submission is this: Women don’t love you for your niceness or your sacrifices. They love you for your strength, your ability to lead, and the respect you command. If she feels you’re weak, her instinct is to dominate, argue, and test you endlessly. But when she knows you’re a man who stands firm, she will submit willingly and respect you without you having to demand it.
And here’s the kicker: If you find a woman who doesn’t behave like the typical modern woman—one who naturally respects you, agrees with your leadership, and doesn’t fight for power—you’ve struck gold. She is rare, and you should value her because she’s the kind of woman who will truly make a home. She’s not out there to prove a point or compete with you. She knows her strength lies in complementing your role, not challenging it.
Men, stop settling for rebellion disguised as love. Be the man she respects, not the one she manipulates. And if she can’t fall into line despite your strength, walk away. You deserve peace, respect, and a woman who knows how to honor her man. That’s leadership. That’s masculinity. That’s what you were born for.
Aklahyel Goni
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